Many are often good at encouraging others when they are down but that is an easy but usually unhelpful exercise in the view of the persons on the receiving side.
Undeniable is the fact that human beings will always need a way out of unhappiness and bad circumstances. But time to me has shown how the best that people often give to others at a time when dejection and disappointment clouds them is often less than helpful. Personally, i would prefer taking off to bed, watching a movie or just doing something that can take me away and bring me back in a good mood rather than have someone tell me what i already know or unsettle me more by asking questions.
The point here is, having tried hard or done the very best that one can, giving one's level of intellect, ability or available resource and time, life sometimes tell us all that we just have not done enough to deserve the result that we seek. At this point, anyone could be frustrated or become unwilling to continue. We all can forge ahead however and become very successful if only we can know how.
Undeniable is the fact that human beings will always need a way out of unhappiness and bad circumstances. But time to me has shown how the best that people often give to others at a time when dejection and disappointment clouds them is often less than helpful. Personally, i would prefer taking off to bed, watching a movie or just doing something that can take me away and bring me back in a good mood rather than have someone tell me what i already know or unsettle me more by asking questions.
The point here is, having tried hard or done the very best that one can, giving one's level of intellect, ability or available resource and time, life sometimes tell us all that we just have not done enough to deserve the result that we seek. At this point, anyone could be frustrated or become unwilling to continue. We all can forge ahead however and become very successful if only we can know how.
What then can anyone do when his/her good is not good enough? When encouragement fails to console and nothing else can be like having one's good being enough. An open question this is, what would you say to it?
